Almost Wordless Wednesday...Twins turn 21

I have always been inspired by Mrs. AOK and her Wordless, well "almost" Wordless Wednesday Posts.  I would laugh as she would start to explain why she, at times, couldn't be wordless.  I can totally understand because if you just post pics that may not necessarily have a lot to do with each other, you have to explain what's going on.  I did my first wordless Wednesday a few weeks back and I'm not even sure if I wrote  it correctly.  I actually contemplated as to the correct way to create one of these post and did a little research. I viewed the post of other bloggers and realized that there was no right or wrong way to write/not write this particular post.  So as you can see, this is not a wordless post, but enough has been said.  Or has it?  LOL... This week I had the pleasure of celebrating with my boys as they celebrated their 21st birthday.  Yes, I did say 21st and boys in the same sentence.  So join me in wishing them a Happy Birthday!

These Three Words

I'm finally participating with Mia and Vashelle  for their weekly Write or Die Wednesdays #WODW.  When I read this weeks prompt, instantly the lyrics of Stevie Wonder's song These Three Words began to resonate in my head.  When was the last time that they heard you say, Mother or Father I love you?  When was the last time that they heard you say, Daughter or Son I love you...as the tune spun around in my head, I think of my children. 

 

  I have two, adorable, fraternal twin boys who just happen to be celebrating their 21st birthday.  Did I actually say that?  Yes, 21!  Wow!  Boys?!?! I have grown men, but in my eyes they will always be my "boys".  I had the pleasure of spending the weekend with them. 

 They are both away at their respective colleges, finding their own paths in life.  Its so hard to believe that I once carried them in my womb and cared for them as infants.  They are the joys of my life. Although it's hard to see they all grown up, I can actually say that I have a sense of peace within me.  Its hard to explain.  I am so happy to be their mom and to know that I did all I could do to raise them to be the men that they are today...Respectable, Caring and Intelligent...just to name a few.  They are so different as far as their personalities, yet so alike in many ways.  It has not been an easy journey, but it has been a joyful one.  I love these two with all my heart and I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world.  These three words...sweet and simple...these three words...short and kind... these three words... I Love You, Darius and DeAndre!

#WODW

Wordless Wednesday: A Single Lady's Valentine's Day

Don't let the title fool you, this single lady was not alone for Valentine's Day.  I contacted a good friend for a Girl's Day Out.  Spending the day eating good food, painting, and drinking wine = good fun for all!

How did you spend your Valentine's Day?  

My Reverse Bucket List for 2014

 In my last post, I stated I was going on a hiatus and I still intend to do so.  I have so much going on in my life that I can't seem to keep up with blogging.  This has frustrated me and caused me to lose my vision.  I have taken the last few days to review some tips from other bloggers on developing a more "readable" post.  As I was reading a post by a young, yet talented blogger, Dominique Bennett, I received a little inspiration.  Her reflection post, 2014 Reverse Bucket List  led me to write this one.  As I reflected on my year, I realized some of the "reversed bucket list" items I had to be thankful for.  So take a little trip with me as I journey through my past year.


In 2014:

Learned to trust more.  Not even sure if that's what I'm trying to say.  I am a great listener, but tend to keep the stress in my life to myself.  I reached out to my "besties" and it has made a huge difference in my life.

Old pic of us; its been awhile since we've all been together.

Cheered for a former student during the Winter Olympics...Lauren Cholewinski

Celebrate my son's accomplishments with modeling.  He's published!  Sweet Brown Harlem photo shoot for Trendy Bride.  Be sure to check out the link...you won't be disappointed!



                                                Experienced the wonder of Google Glass.

                                *Attended my 25th  class reunion...telling my age now.

 "Bartender for the Day" (well really a few minutes)  at one of my favorite, local hot spots...The Firefly Distillery.  What a great way to celebrate my birthday!

Participated in the ALS Ice bucket Challenge  (Video in link)

                                                                           Cut my hair. 

                                                    I created a blog! Thanks for reading!

Attended my 1st bloggers conference.  Bloggy Bootcamp was AWESOME!!  Can't wait to attend again!

                    I met Dave Mirassou!  His family's wine is my favorite!!
        

                               Developed a "spirited" painting hobby.

Met an Olympian...Manteo Mitchell, elite runner and silver medalist in the 2012 London Games.

                   Witnessed gas go below $2/gallon  This was a great treat for the holiday season.

                  Made the difference in the lives of many children. School Counselor remember.

Celebrated with friends. 

Celebrated with family.  

My cousin and his wife

My mom and dad

    

Aunt Barb and My Boys

The Wisconsin Family

This post has helped me to see that regardless what the future holds, to be proud of the moments I've already experienced and accomplished.

To Blog or Not to Blog? Major Construction Needed

As the year comes to an end, I'm beginning to contemplate whether or not this blogging thing is really for me.  I know it sounds bad, but that's honestly how I feel.  I can't seem to get this thing right.  Some would say that there's no right or wrong way to blog, but really...there is.  I am always second guessing myself.  I can't seem to find a vision.  I feel like I don't have the drive I had when I first began.  Right about now, I feel like a little lost lamb. 

I'm in need of some serious direction!

The problem I think I'm having is that I have so much other stuff going on in my life that I don't have time to think.  I thought a 2-week vaca from my full-time job would be the perfect time for me to catch up on posting, but all I've done is gone back and forth on what I should write about.  It really shouldn't be this difficult, so I think I need  to take a little hiatus from blogging for awhile.  When I return to work next week, I will be inundated with parent conferences to get our 8th graders registered for high school.  That process takes up the entire month of January.  With 10-11 conferences scheduled each day, and then working after school with other students in need, my brain and body will thoroughly be...umhh...how can I describe it...CRASHED!!  

I'll be too exhausted to do anything other than getting rest for the next day.  Its sad that I'm thinking this way now, but I'm only speaking from  experience.

Maybe sometime during this hiatus, I'll find the inspirational ease to write again.  Hopefully, my mind won't be so clustered and I'll be more relaxed to write.  Most people would probably say I should continue to write to release some stress, but right now this seems to be causing it.  Nothing major of course.  I'm not fully happy with my blog and need the time to put more focus into it. I have a lot to learn about blogging and know that I've made a few mistakes along the way.    I know I shouldn't be so hard on myself since I only began a few months ago.  Ironically, I just sat back and read over this post.  Made corrections and reread.  Let out a long sigh and I'm now feeling a sense of peace. 

So maybe writing can ease my stress; Go figure!

 As you reflect on your year of blogging, I hope each of you feel at peace with your writing and I wish you much success in 2015.  Until sometime in the near future...I'm officially... 

Thank you for your patience!

Have you ever lost your drive towards something you had a passion for?  How did you get your mojo back? What's your source of inspiration?  I would love to hear from you.

My Giveaway Winning Frenzy

I'm always looking for freebies whether its coupons, free samples, and my latest obsession...GIVEAWAYS!!!  The name says it all...someone wanting to GIVE something AWAY. 

Okay, everyone loves a great giveaway, right?  Anything that's free is always a winner.  So, why don't you get out there and give some a try.

 I've entered various types of giveaways recently and I'm starting to find myself becoming addicted to finding them.  I've entered the looping and shop hop frenzy that has been taking place almost daily on Instagram.   Various businesses and/or bloggers get together to offer you a product from each of their individual stores or an all inclusive prize such as a $500 Target gift card, or $250 in PayPal cash.  Some bloggers have gotten together to offer their favorite things, like Mrs. AOK, who is a great lifestyle/foodie/motherhood blogger.    Others have individual giveaways that feature a great prizes as well. As with any contest, there is a deadline to enter and winners are notified within a certain time-frame established by the host.  Here are links to some present and past offers.
http://instagram.com/p/w2XtgRhXFQ/?modal=true
http://brittlebyscorner.com/giveaways-and-blog-hops

Giveaways are a great way of sharing your passion with others as well as building your fan base.  The winners end up with great prizes and the sponsors/host can grow their audience across all social networks.  Its a great way to build your blog's following; a Win -Win for everyone involved!   Some giveaways are easy to enter.  Many use Rafflecopter which allow various task to be completed within a few clicks.  Task such as visiting the host's Facebook page, following them on Pinterest or Instagram, and Tweeting about the giveaway.  All task add up to entries into the giveaway.  Depending on the number of hosts involved, some giveaways have proven to be quite exhausting. This is true for Rafflecopter and other methods like the looping I mentioned earlier on Instagram.  The only thing I don't like about this method is the number of people participating and having to like all of their pages.  Some can have  20 or more shops participating in the loop.  Doesn't seem too bad right?  Well, now you'll be receiving  pictures on a regular basis from sites you may not normally follow.  

Recently, I have been very lucky and have won a few of the giveaways that I've entered.  I've won a couple of favorite things, and a few individual sponsors.  

It feels good to get notifications like this...

It's been great participating and winning the giveaways.  I wonder what I'll win next?  Until then...gotta get back to entering. 

Have you entered any giveaways lately?  What have you won?